Hayır demeyi bilmek

By. Yaşar Cahit Uyar Yaşar Cahit Uyar -
Hayır demek göründüğünden çok daha zordur. Konunun gün yüzünde olmaması da eksi(-) bir durumdur. İnsandan insana değişen olgular her zaman zorlamıştır beni. Kitleye hitap etmek zordur çünkü kitlenin kişilik özellikleri farklıdır. Konuyla ilgili düşünceleri daha da basit anlatmak için bir kitap önereceğim.
 "Marie Haddou- hayır demeyi bilmek"

“Hayır” demek hepimize neden bu kadar zor gelir? Onaylamadığımız düşünceleri onaylar görünmek pahasına, bizi başkalarına uyum sağlamaya iten nedir? İlişkilerimizde sevilmeme ya da reddedilme tehdidi bizi nasıl yönlendirir? Haklı bir “hayır”ı ifade etmek, gerçek bir bireyin oluşmasına ve güçlemesine nasıl katkıda bulunur? Kalıplardan kurtularak düşüncelerimizi özgürce ifade edebilmek mümkün müdür?
Kitabın içinde geçen bunca soru sizce niye? Hayır demenin zorluğunu nasıl yeneriz, nasıl başarıya ulaşırız?
Dostum sorular, sorular evet sıkılıyorsun biliyorum ama soru sormadan cevap alamazsın. Kendine inanmaya başlamadan "hayır" demeyi öğrenemezsin. Başaracağını bilmelisin, yalnız değilsin bende seninle aynı durumdayım bende bu konuda sorunlar çekiyorum. Kendimi aşmak için çabalıyorum. Sende bana katılmak ister misin?
O halde hadi başlayalım.

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